Steve Pavlina on choosing happiness…
Youâ€™re here to create the life you really want, not to endure a life you donâ€™t want. Your power to make decisions and take action is all you need to get you out of a crappy situation. Exercise that power consciously.
A pretty simple concept. But look around. How many people do you see actually see practicing this or doing what is in their own power to put it into motion? How many people, yourself included, do you know who are truly happy?
There is a list of songs with funny titles that gets floated around through chain emails. I’ve received it several times over the years, and I always check to make sure a particular Roger Miller song is still on it. Unfortunately, of the many people have laughed at the title, very few are even aware of the next line, which is actually the point of the song:
You can’t rollerskate in a buffalo herd
But you can be happy if you’ve a mind to
Pretty ironic. Happiness is actually not that tough to achieve…”all you gotta do is put your mind to it”. Every now and then it may require a little extra effort that most people aren’t willing to put forward, like reading past the title of a song to find out what it is really about.
For most, it’s easier to just stay pissed.